On December 30, 1988 my oldest grandchild, Pete, was born to my daughter on my son’s 25th birthday. He was beautiful both inside and out from that moment until he died tragically on his mother’s 49th birthday on July 5, 2010. I wrote my first book about Pete’s tragedy and it’s called WE ARE DIFFERENT NOW. Losing him is the biggest heartbreak I have ever known and, at my age, I have known quite a few.
His mother and I immediately recognized that Pete was born with an old soul and had wisdom and insight kids his age normally would not. When he was an infant and cried, she sang “Over the Rainbow” to him and he’d quiet immediately. It worked beautifully. When his first Christmas rolled around, I felt so lucky when I found a music box he could easily operate and it played that song. He loved it. When he graduated high school, they each wore a different colored cap and gown and rainbows were their class theme. Of course, “Over the Rainbow” played at the end of the ceremony.
In the weeks after his death from a 100 foot fall off a Colorado mountain ledge at night, we had rainbows almost every single day or evening and they were simply spectacular. I’ve never seen anything like it before or since. Almost everyone noticed them and started taking pictures to share with us. That was over six years ago now and it’s never happened since.
However, only recently did the beginning lyrics of that song suddenly ring a bell with me as I actually stopped and thought about what they say. “Somewhere over the rainbow, way up high, there’s a land that I heard of once in a lullaby.” Then it struck me that his mother had done exactly that for Pete when he was so tiny…she sang it as a lullaby to comfort him. Coincidence?
Needless to say, that particular song is extremely important to our family and it never fails to summon forth tears when I hear it sung. It has become what I refer to as our family hymn. How prophetic was it to attach itself to Pete as soon as he was born. He died at the tender age of 21 and was loved by everyone who knew him. Unlike all the hatred and chaos happening in the world today, Pete was blessed with a warm and loving personality and he spread good feelings wherever he went. Nobody has ever said anything bad about him to my knowledge and he’s still fondly remembered by so many. As I say in my book about him, we take comfort to know he’s still out there…somewhere…over the rainbow.
(“Over the Rainbow” lyrics by E. Y. Harburg, music byHarold Arlen – written for the movie WIZARD OF OZ in 1939.)
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